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The things you can do to change your son’s behavior

Everybody knows that normal behavior in children depends directly on their age, personality, physical and emotional development.

But it can become a problem then you child’s behavior doesn’t match the expectations of the family.

It gets very problematic.

In general, behavior is determined whether it is normal or “good” based on its social and cultural appropriateness, in terms of development.

Knowing what to expect from your child at all ages will help you decide if his behavior is normal.

What can I do about it?

Children tend to repeat a kind of behavior when it gets rewarded and they abandon it when they get ignored. It’s pretty basic.

You need to be consistent at the way you react at your children’s behavior. If you reward them or punish them on different occasion can confuse them.

When you suspect that your child’s behavior is actually problematic, you have 3 options:

  • Decide that behavior is not a problem because it is appropriate for your child’s age and developmental status.
  • Try to stop the behavior, either by ignoring it or sending him into a correctional place just like camps for troubled teen.
  • Show you a new behavior that you prefer and reinforce it by rewarding your son.

What else can I do to help my child behave better?

Avoid power struggles, situations in which no one wins.

When you think you have exaggerated, it is better to use common sense to solve the problem, even if you do not act in a manner consistent with your method of reward or punishment.

And most importantly, you have to accept the basic personality of your son.

He could be shy, sociable, communicative or active. It doesn’t matter. The basic personality may change a little, but not too much.

You have to try your best to avoid situations that may make your son angry, such as being overly stimulated, tired or angry.

Do not criticize your son in front of other people. You can describe your son’s behavior as bad, but do not label your child as bad.

Praise your son often, when he deserves it and cherish your son emotionally and frequently.

Children and teenagers need attention from their parents. Even though they say and it may seem the opposite!

Remember that nobody will ever want to correct your son and no one will ever take a better care of him than his parents.